questions without certain answers?

There are still lots of question without certain answers?
Most of the time we will end up with discussion and not the real answer maybe that is why it brings confusion to people ? how well we get our answers ?

I was driving last time and something just click in my mind about being a leader or controller ! and I could not really get an answer even when I asked it I just receive an opinion and not an answer ! Maybe it is a bit crazy what I try to say but most of the time we just give an idea to the subject which is a questioning our mind and we like to discus the subject most to give an answer !